Affiliate since: 07/05/2024, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Nafisa's 286 other Ask SC answers

I can easily relate to your question because at one point, I also thought I could never talk to people about anything unless I wanted to. You will be surprised at yourself what you can do and I believe that every individual has great potential - it is a question of being exposed to circumstances and opportunities that will get rid of those inhibitions.

1. Look at SFI as your business where without talking there is no way you will move forward, the talking can also be in a different form, visual or written. Be passionate about the business and you will lose your inhibitions gradually. Use social media and groups to write/talk about your interest in SFI and TC.

2. Start making presentations with close family and friends with whom you will be comfortable and also learn to note down important points about the business so that you can easily put across to prospects.

3. Invite friends to your group meetings or over coffee in an environment that you are happy with. Talking in an informal setting also helps to bring up SFI and TC easily especially if they are women-there is familiarity over one common interest-shopping over TC. Once you have overcome this hurdle, it will be easy to add the business aspect to it.

4. The more you present your ideas, the better you will get and become more confident. You can only do this if you have grasped the concept of how SFI and TC works. This means keeping upto date with your knowledge which you will pass on to your prospects.

5. There is a vast source of information on the internet about every available topic you can think about. It may not be a bad idea to explore the possibility of learning some marketing techniques that will make your approach to new prospects easier and help you become proficient at talking to people.


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I can easily relate to your question because at one point, I also thought I could never talk to people about anything unless I wanted to. You will be surprised at yourself what you can do and I believe that every individual has great potential - it is a question of being exposed to circumstances and opportunities that will get rid of those inhibitions.

1. Look at SFI as your business where without talking there is no way you will move forward, the talking can also be in a different form,
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Affiliate since: 01/14/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Sule's 287 other Ask SC answers

Hi Nurul,

You are not alone in your predicament. It is possible that a very large number of SFI affiliates are also not very good at talking to people. I am not good too that is why I know how you feel. The good news is that there is a way around the problem. Thanks to SFI and its driving team. All hope is not lost. You can succeed in the business like anyone else if you learn to do the following which may not involve direct talks with anyone.

- You can be writing a blog which helps to direct traffic to your gateways.
- Send out to prospects SFI and TripleClicks E-cards.
- Use SFI banners in your personal website.
- Use safe-lists to email SFI ads to prospective PSAs and ECAs.
- Post flyers in high traffic areas like phone booths, supermarkets and sporting arenas.
- Use car Decal stickers in your car.
- Use business cards which promote SFI and TripleClicks.
- Run SFI and TripleClicks ads in the signature feature of your emails.
- Design something unique and funny on flyers to hand out to perfect strangers in public places.

These are some of the many ways to promote your SFI business I can think of right now which do not require you to speak to or interact closely with anyone.

I hope this answer helps. Best wishes.



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Hi Nurul,

You are not alone in your predicament. It is possible that a very large number of SFI affiliates are also not very good at talking to people. I am not good too that is why I know how you feel. The good news is that there is a way around the problem. Thanks to SFI and its driving team. All hope is not lost. You can succeed in the business like anyone else if you learn to do the following which may not involve direct talks with anyone.

- You can be writing a blog which
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Affiliate since: 03/02/2014, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Dorcas's 4 other Ask SC answers

Hi,

I had a similar problem too. I am not good at all a talking to people and I am an extremely reserved person. So I'll just share with you some tips that have helped me to get PSAs and talk about TripleClicks and SFI.

Instead of approaching people I did not know, I started with my closest family and friends since I am more free with them and I am used to them. That was one of the first steps to help me learn to talk about TripleClicks and SFI. As you speak to people you are close too, you gain more confidence about the topic and it teaches simple straight forward useful answers as you answer the questions they might have for you.

Secondly, I use some of the products I bought from TripleClicks publicly. For example I ordered my (Wave3) W3 starter kit and placed the sticker on my car. when someone asks me about it, I can then offer some explanations because I know they have initially picked interest. It saves me from approaching people that will not pick so much interest, as this can get discouraging and can put you down. I plan to do the same when I get a master card, I will keep showing it to friends and acquaintances who initially show interest in it and find it as a good idea. So get some products that help you catch people's attention or make use of the free marketing aids too, as long as they look attractive. From experience, it makes the talking easier and simpler if the other person has made the first move or inquiry.

Lastly, I have found that the SHARE-ITs for posting on facebook, twitter, Pinterest etc are useful and speak for me when I post them on facebook and twitter. (These are placed on your alerts page when you win something). It shows people out there that there is something valuable at TripleClicks and SFI.



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Hi,

I had a similar problem too. I am not good at all a talking to people and I am an extremely reserved person. So I'll just share with you some tips that have helped me to get PSAs and talk about TripleClicks and SFI.

Instead of approaching people I did not know, I started with my closest family and friends since I am more free with them and I am used to them. That was one of the first steps to help me learn to talk about TripleClicks and SFI. As you speak to people you are
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Affiliate since: 01/13/2006, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Michael's 101 other Ask SC answers

Hello Nurul
A very common mistake is that you need to SELL SFI and Tripleclicks. Do not try and sell the business. Your excitement and attitude towards your SFI business make people take notice.

"DO NOT" try to introduce the SFI business to a person on your first meeting. It takes time to build trust. Meeting with the person more than once (3-6 times) will usually build enough trust between you.

If it is a family member or close friend who trusts you you can show them straight away, just don't let them talk you out of your SFI business. They may try to PROTECT you.

You should ask a person questions about what THEY do rather than what YOU are doing. I like to use the following F.0.R.M. formula because it is easy to remember.

F.amily - ASK ABOUT THEIR FAMILY
O.ccupation - ASK ABOUT THEIR EMPLOYMENT/WORK AND WHY THEY DO IT
R.ecreation - ASK ABOUT THEIR INTERESTS AND WHAT THEY LIKE TO DO IN THEIR SPARE TIME
M.otivation - ASK WHAT MAKES THEM DO THE JOB THEY DO AND IF THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR LIFE

The above should be conversational, not an interview!

If you show a genuine interest in another person they will be willing to listen to you.

If you are pressed for time or are only likely to see the person once just leave a Tripleclicks X-Card (https://www.tripleclicks.com/detail.php?item=5597) or your business card with them and get their contact information then FOLLOW UP and see if they are interested in getting together again.

Remember - DO NOT TRY TO SELL THE SFI BUSINESS, DO NOT TRY TO INTRODUCE THEM TO SFI ON THE FIRST MEETING

When a person asks you what you do tell them

"I earn an income online using just my computer at home' - LET THEM ASK YOU HOW OR THEY MAY SHOW AN INTEREST

"I can show you how if you are interested? Perhaps you would like to join me? It won't cost you anything but a bit of time"


If the answer is negative leave it there, do not try to push. When you meet with the person again they may ask you how things are going with your business. Say "GREAT and I can still show you how if you are interested!"

Let them make a decision, DO NOT TRY TO SELL IT TO THEM.

I hope this helps you move your business forward to success and profits Nurul

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Hello Nurul
A very common mistake is that you need to SELL SFI and Tripleclicks. Do not try and sell the business. Your excitement and attitude towards your SFI business make people take notice.

"DO NOT" try to introduce the SFI business to a person on your first meeting. It takes time to build trust. Meeting with the person more than once (3-6 times) will usually build enough trust between you.

If it is a family member or close friend who trusts you you can show
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Affiliate since: 12/31/1969, Power Rank: 99999999

I just start by saying, "I just started my own business at home!" Usually there is a lot of interest, because people are always looking for ways to make additional money. Use this phrase anywhere - at the market, the dentist, the gas station - wherever you go. It will be sure to spark an easy conversation.

Also, you can use the e-cards provided to alert your friends and family about products they might like. The cards are cute and non-threatening, so they are easy to send. Whenever you see something you know your sister would like - send a card. Your cousin is crazy about classic cars? Send him the URL for an ECA that sells exotic parts. Dad loves fishing? etc...

I do most of my ECA prospecting by mail. Write a short letter of introduction telling the vendor why you chose them and what TripleClicks can do for them. Send the letter, an ECA brochure and your card to them. (Sometimes I send a Gift Card, too!) Follow up the next month with an ECA postcard. Visit them if you can after that. You will have an automatic introduction!

I hope these ideas help you get started. You can also use the Posters, leave your card or a Gift Card with your tip when you dine out, or put fliers in the mailboxes around your town. Use your imagination to contact people until you are comfortable talking off the cuff. Good luck!
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I just start by saying, "I just started my own business at home!" Usually there is a lot of interest, because people are always looking for ways to make additional money. Use this phrase anywhere - at the market, the dentist, the gas station - wherever you go. It will be sure to spark an easy conversation.

Also, you can use the e-cards provided to alert your friends and family about products they might like. The cards are cute and non-threatening, so they are easy to send.
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Affiliate since: 01/05/2011, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Bob's 135 other Ask SC answers

Talking to strangers is never an easy task.
Talking to people you know is easier for casual conversation.
If you do not know your product, even talking to a friend can
be difficult.

My advice is simple, know your product, study and learn it.
Then, treat every one you talk to about it...as a friend.
You do not pretend they are your best friend...just a friend.

Keep eye contact to make sure you have their attention.
If it waivers away, slow down. Allow them to ask questions.

Maintain a friendship attitude, smile and talk normally.

Do not make a speech or hog the conversation.

Be relaxed, it will make your subject more relaxed and receptive to what you are saying.

If you flub a line or make a mistake, laugh it off, and keep going.
We all make a little blunder now and then.

My last piece of advice is keep it simple, do not over indulge in giving
to many details.
Just lay out the basics to get your prospect interested.
When they are signed up. Then you can start passing on detailed information.

They say, if you never jump in the water, you will never learn to swim.

Best to you.
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Talking to strangers is never an easy task.
Talking to people you know is easier for casual conversation.
If you do not know your product, even talking to a friend can
be difficult.

My advice is simple, know your product, study and learn it.
Then, treat every one you talk to about it...as a friend.
You do not pretend they are your best friend...just a friend.

Keep eye contact to make sure you have their attention.
If it waivers away, slow down.
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Affiliate since: 09/10/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Ryan's 58 other Ask SC answers

Most people who are not very good at talking to people, are exceptional writers. So try writing.

Write on your social sites, set up blogs, send emails to friends and contacts. Share with them your enthusiasm and invite them to try out SFI and TripleClicks for themselves without risk or obligation.

You can't talk people into SFI or tripleClicks anyway. All you need to do is to stir up sufficient curiosity to make them want to check it out. The ones that see the opportunity will stay, while the others may flirt with it or just not bother at all.

You may try some motivation on TripleClicks like Gift Cards, but in my opinion Both SFI and TripleClicks are so well designed that the benefits will be clear to those are prepared to look seriously at it.

Stick with your strengths; write your way to becoming a great success with SFI.
All my very best.
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Most people who are not very good at talking to people, are exceptional writers. So try writing.

Write on your social sites, set up blogs, send emails to friends and contacts. Share with them your enthusiasm and invite them to try out SFI and TripleClicks for themselves without risk or obligation.

You can't talk people into SFI or tripleClicks anyway. All you need to do is to stir up sufficient curiosity to make them want to check it out. The ones that see the opportunity will
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Affiliate since: 10/01/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Nimo's 381 other Ask SC answers

The key is in your own words 'simple and easy' Keep it simple and easy.

I would recommend that you 1st explain what SFI is and what TripleClicks is. You cannot explain one without referring to the other.

The aim here is to be brief and simple.

Tell the people that you talk to that SFI is the 'mother company' that owns an online store called TripleClicks.

Explain that our role is primarily to be sales people and promoters of the store. If the people we refer to the store buy from the store we get commission on their purchases and on any other purchases thereafter as long as we remain members of SFI. There are other income streams in SFI but the store is the main one.

Our other role is to be promoters and recruiters of SFI. The people that we recruit we sponsor and coach into the business and help them become successful promoters of TripleClicks and recruiters for SFI themselves.

Make sure that you know the facts about SFI/TripleClicks so that you can answer questions they may have. A good source is the article 'SFI by the numbers' in the SFI News.

Blessings


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The key is in your own words 'simple and easy' Keep it simple and easy.

I would recommend that you 1st explain what SFI is and what TripleClicks is. You cannot explain one without referring to the other.

The aim here is to be brief and simple.

Tell the people that you talk to that SFI is the 'mother company' that owns an online store called TripleClicks.

Explain that our role is primarily to be sales people and promoters of the store. If the people
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Affiliate since: 02/24/2014, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Derek's 210 other Ask SC answers

I think there are many of us who are not too confident when it comes to talking to others about your business.

My suggestion is to study SFI in small parts and as you learn about things so you start tsalking to prospective customers about the things you are sure of. As you learn about SFI then your confidence will improve. Try looking at the questions that are seeking answers in SC Is there something there that you could answer? If there is then go ahead and anwswer the question.

The more you talk to people about the business the more confident you will grow. When you start building your team you need to be able to communicate with them. They may ask you questions that you don't know the answer to, but there are plenty of ways of finding the answersnd passing on the information to your affiliates.

Don't be frightened and don't be shy. Look up some answers and put your views forward. Think about what got you interested in SFI and use that information to help with your communication with others. Talk to your upline. There are lots of us who really didn't know where to start and what to do so we asked for help, just as you are doing now.

Look at the forum on a regular basis, and look at the news put out by SFI. also look at the daily tips. all these are there to help you and anybody else who takes the time to read them.

I hope this helps. I wish you every success with your SFI Business
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I think there are many of us who are not too confident when it comes to talking to others about your business.

My suggestion is to study SFI in small parts and as you learn about things so you start tsalking to prospective customers about the things you are sure of. As you learn about SFI then your confidence will improve. Try looking at the questions that are seeking answers in SC Is there something there that you could answer? If there is then go ahead and anwswer the question.

The
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Affiliate since: 04/13/2012, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Andrew's 330 other Ask SC answers

As a reformed shy person I can relate to your issues and share some mindset changes that can help you.

I use to be so shy that I couldn't get in front of a group of 3 people and speak my mind easily. This even occasionally included trouble expressing ideas in front of family. I now know I suffer from Bi-Polar which helps cause a ton of social anxiety issues. In short you feel like eyes are on you and judging your every move.

For me, getting past this took some time. Even when started my first business it was one that allowed me to deal with 1 customer at a time and not have any meetings or speaking engagements to deal with. I was in my teens before I could speak in front of any group that wasn't either family or church related.

I began developing a mindset by the time I was old enough to run for a local elected office that speaking was a job, not an option. I learned in a group to pick 1-2 familiar faces out in a room and speak to those people shutting out the thoughts of all others in the room. I also stopped trying to rehearse a script because the more I worried about forgetting what I planned to say the more convinced I was I couldn't do this.

I threw out the script and opted instead for a list of notes or highlights I wanted to make sure and cover and began speaking from the heart and through personal experience. I can now speak in front of any size group, have been on State Wide Television, have co-hosted webinars and can run a lean and mean Skype group.

The rules to doing it are simple:

1. Find someone to talk to in the crowd and talk to them.
2. Be yourself, don't rehearse and try to be a pitch maker, be you.
3. Consider this one more task you must do in a day and don't let ideas of skipping it get in your head.
4. Remember you are not alone. Statistically 83% of the people you are talking to are at least as nervous as you are speaking to a crowd and we are all human.
5. Relax, and have that conversation with a friend not that testimony at your criminal trial.


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As a reformed shy person I can relate to your issues and share some mindset changes that can help you.

I use to be so shy that I couldn't get in front of a group of 3 people and speak my mind easily. This even occasionally included trouble expressing ideas in front of family. I now know I suffer from Bi-Polar which helps cause a ton of social anxiety issues. In short you feel like eyes are on you and judging your every move.

For me, getting past this took some time. Even when
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