First of all, who is a good Leader?
A good leader is one who takes responsibility for the growth of his/her Team Members and in that process takes every one along with him/her.
What is low self-esteem?
A person with low self esteem feels incompetent, incapable or unworthy. Most of the time, it arises because of the tendency to compare oneself or one’s situation with others or other’s situation.
How to over come this?
1. There is no point in comparing yourself with others. People are different. Their situations are not identical. You are what you are. They are what they are! Please realize this first.
2. Only when you compare yourself with others you tend to focus on your weak areas forgetting the positive areas. Better don’t to this.
3. Analyze yourself. Find out what are all your negative things. Note them down. Speak to yourself when no one is around at home. Say to yourself, “I am a Great person”; I can achieve anything I like”; “I am a capable person”. Know your needs. This way, you will grow in confidence every day and soon you will not feel that kind of insecurity that stopped you over the years from moving with others.
4. Appreciate your own positive points. Look at them through a magnifying glass. You will realize your self worth. It will make you a strong person and gradually you will be able to feel your strength.
5. Do not feel that you deserve nothing in life. Learn to enjoy your existence. Appreciate every moment of your life. Do what you like most; derive happiness out of your actions and feel that joy in your heart. This will help you in increasing your confidence level. You will start believing in yourself.
Once you start believing in yourself, you will be able to understand the huge potential within you. You will look for ways and means to bring them out.
This is what will motivate you to take responsibility for your Team Members. You will look for ways and means to support them; Help them; Guide them and in fact, you will start leading by your own example.
Naturally, your Team Members will begin to trust you and there will be two way communications. You will see your growth; but, you will delight in the growth of your Team Members.
That’s the sign that you are indeed a Good Team Leader and in the process you would have gained enough experience.
As you keep growing in confidence more and more, you will be able to take more responsibility towards every one’s growth & you will carry every one along with you.
You are a full fledged Leader Now! You can do wonders and create happiness not just for yourself but for every one around you!
What happened to that Low Self-Esteem that you were worried about? Don't look for it! Its left you for good!!
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First of all, who is a good Leader?
A good leader is one who takes responsibility for the growth of his/her Team Members and in that process takes every one along with him/her.
What is low self-esteem?
A person with low self esteem feels incompetent, incapable or unworthy. Most of the time, it arises because of the tendency to compare oneself or one’s situation with others or other’s situation.
How to over come this?
1. There is no point
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