Listen, smile, by reason and then do what you wanted to do anyway.
I do not know what the strategy of other people in this situation, but one that I developed is very simple: "If you do not support me in my project, if your goal is not to help me and criticize me, if you are only negative and you think this is not an exceptional job, DO NOT LISTEN ".
98% of cases is never constructive criticism. The people do not do to help. It does so because it is not comfortable with herself and because he has nothing better to do.
I do not know why he does it, but it does and when it does, if you listen you do is feed a negative energy that instead of giving you the strength to go on, often demoralizes you.
Often even if you do not demoralized, you lose time. Why respond to their provocations? Because our ego tells us that we are weak if we do not?
I lately, if I see someone attacks and does not help, not calculation. I do not answer. I do not consider. I do not allow that negative energy to touch me and I do not spend time with them. My brain tells me that are weak if not the answer, but I'm smart.
Not all are strong. I always have been and I understand. Character, as I said before, I was not very strong. I was afraid of being criticized.
I was afraid that what I was doing is not working. I was also afraid that it was illegal and many were really good to attack me.
Do not listen to them is great.
Being with successful people is even better, but the best solution of all is to work even harder at that time, to achieve success even more quickly.
Do not answer anything, do not waste time, but use it to achieve their dreams by focusing on the goal along with people who have it already made is the perfect mix to accelerate your climb.
Learn to sponsor and every time someone criticizes you, work even more. He works harder. He works harder. They are nothing more than distractions. Stay focused and keep pushing. When they arrive to slow you down, you accelerate!
They work only a month and then they leave, slamming the door because they say that SFI was not what they expected ?! They're just poor ignorant, because they completely ignore the work that is done in SFI, it takes months and months of hard work to fully understand this work and do it better, but they, Einstein miniature claim to understand everything in a month!
There are many people out there, just waiting to do a job like this, then never ever demoralized, they do not want to continue in SFI? Well, no problem, you will find many other people who will appreciate it and you will follow to build a team getting stronger.
Amen.
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Listen, smile, by reason and then do what you wanted to do anyway.
I do not know what the strategy of other people in this situation, but one that I developed is very simple: "If you do not support me in my project, if your goal is not to help me and criticize me, if you are only negative and you think this is not an exceptional job, DO NOT LISTEN ".
98% of cases is never constructive criticism. The people do not do to help. It does so because it is not comfortable
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