Hi Emma,
What is too much? You can decide for yourself. But I think we can help them a little at the beginning and see them do it for themselves and grow. Learn from a growing child, see how he/she grows. When a child is growing he/she needs a lot of attention however as they grow you'll notice they want to do things for themselves. This is how it is in the growing stages in any sphere. Whether it be child/mother relation, wife/husband relation, or be it business relationships the principles the same. Growing Process or a learning process! It is a process and process takes time and steps to grow.
Help as much as you can but allow them to help themselves and learn for themselves the path to survival. Here in SFI we call it path to success!
The famous Chinese proverb states give a man a fish and you'll have to feed him the rest of his life but if you teach him to fish he will never be hungry all his lifetime.
Hope I have answered your question and yes, have a blessed Christmas as this is the time of the season to wish every one a Very Merry Christmas! Merry Christmas everyone!
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Hi Emma,
What is too much? You can decide for yourself. But I think we can help them a little at the beginning and see them do it for themselves and grow. Learn from a growing child, see how he/she grows. When a child is growing he/she needs a lot of attention however as they grow you'll notice they want to do things for themselves. This is how it is in the growing stages in any sphere. Whether it be child/mother relation, wife/husband relation, or be it business relationships the principles ...more
